Difference between Fear and Respect:-

Firstly when we talk about “Fear” and “Respect” most of the people says these two words goes hand and hand but it’s the question to be solved. Fear means feeling of agitation and anxiety caused by the presence or imminence of danger but Respect on the other hand is defined as showing regards and appreciation for the worth of someone or something. So from the definition itself we found that fear is given to others but respect should be gained.

Since our childhood we are given the fear of evil activities so sometimes we get afraid even to go out in the midnight but since our childhood we don’t get respect from others, it should be earned by doing some extra-ordinary work which is helpful for our society, environment and also to human race. When we talk about fear all that comes in mind is negativity in our mind but when we talk about respect I guess our mind plays with the positive thought. It is not compulsory that our fear is real; it can sometimes be imaginary too. But respect when given, should always be real. Fear is life threatening whereas respect nurtures our life. When we get respect from someone it brings a positive attitude inside ourselves but if we fear someone, it brings a total negative thinking about the person. To be frank, we should never respect the one whom we fear. It is a natural feeling that comes inside us.

For eg, when we were small, we always respected our teachers and parents. We don’t know whether it was out of fear or it came just naturally. Fear not only scares the person, but it also throws out the self-confidence that he/she has. And if there is no confidence, the person automatically starts fearing about things. Respect brings more and more confidence; it is obvious that every person wants to get respect. And once respect is gained, our confidence should not turn into over-confidence because once the respect is lost, it is very difficult to re-gain it.

Finally we can say fear is the obstacle which decreases our hope as well as self-confidence when we talk about it. Respect brings an inner joy inside ourselves which not only leads us to a better path, but also brings self-confidence by doing the right things.

References:-

Available at: - http://www.thefreedictionary.com/Fear

Available at: - http://www.k12.hi.us/~mkunimit/respect1.htm

Last access (25^th April 2013)

Difference between arrogance and confidence

 Difference between confidence and arrogance:-

Hello again, I guess u guys are enjoying reading my blog.  Now in this blog, I will be talking about difference between confidence and arrogance. When we ask people about the differences, most of them say that they are kind of similar but when we go in deep we find many differences. So in this blog, I am going to talk about how confidence is different form arrogance.

Confidence simply means belief in oneself and one’s power or abilities in one word we can say self confidence. Arrogance means having or displaying a sense of overbearing self-worth or self-importance, feeling of one’s superiority. Simply we can say arrogance means the feeling of “I am the king” and no one in this earth can beat me. Now for example, we can say the person who is confident thinks that other person may also be even better than him/her but the person who does have arrogant nature thinks that no one can defeat him/her. They think that they have all the ideas and will be teaching to others even if they don’t know. Telling more about arrogant nature, I will be telling about some interesting incidents which had happened in my school level. There was hotel teacher who was full of arrogance. He used to teach us everything, like how to read, how to play basketball, football, cricket almost everything that even he doesn’t know much about but we all guys keep quite because we respect him. But one day, he came while we were having dinner and even taught how to eat dinner and I still remember he started giving lecture while we were having dinner.

Having self-confidence is a wonderful and positive quality to successfully navigate life. Those with confidence have a positive and optimistic attitude that is easy to be around and help to take the decision of life easily. A confident person admires and takes the ideas and skills from other people as well as it will increase own skills and ideas regarding the topic. The person of a confident nature keeps quite when they don’t know the topic and also they say sorry when they are wrong. However, as often true, too much of a good thing can become a bad thing so arrogance is all about overconfidence. Talking about the arrogance person, they try to dominate other even they are right or wrong they don’t want other to speak while they are talking and also don’t want to learn new things. They think themselves as superior that’s what arrogant people think about themselves.

This are the some difference about arrogance and confidence so u guys choose the path, being confident person and gaining respect from others or being person of arrogant nature and gaining disrespect form others.

References:-

Available at: http://www.definitions.net/definition/confidence

Available at: http://www.thefreedictionary.com/arrogant

Available at: http://marietta-psychologist.blogspot.com/2012/03/difference-between-confidence-and.html

Last access: 24^th April 2013

most important thing to know "who am I"

1)      Who I am?

         - Simply telling who am I , I am funny , the guy who want to get new experience in life but not much studious  person.

2)      Where am I?

     -  I am in the learning period, basically the most important phase of life which leads my future to be
 (a good reputed person or useless person).

3)      Why am I doing this assignment?

-  I am doing this assignment to know myself and also answer many questions which arises in my mind.

4)      What am I going to be in 5 years from now and in 21 years from now?

 - It is said that the future is full of mystery so blindly I can’t say what I will be doing in the time period but I will be completing my masters on computing and own my own company related to my field in next 21 year.

5)      What is that I have to develop myself to be what I should be in next 5 years and 21 years?

-  I should be little more curious about my study, learn to explore myself, spending more time on study. Also making myself updated is some key factor which I should develop myself to be what I want to be in next 5 years and 21 years.

6)      How serious am I to achieve goal of my life?

- I am trying to be serious so that the things what I am learning I can implement in my future to achieve the goal in my life.

Role I play in my daily life

Role I play in my daily life:-

I think every days is normal day but I am surprised now because knowingly or unknowingly I guess  every moment of life I play different roles according to the friend circle and also the peoples to whom  I meet. Some of them are being son, brother, friend, master, customer and also business person.

As I open my eyes,  I start playing different roles from the morning itself.  My role is being a master as I go for a walk with my dogs which comes out as a refreshment for me as well and also lead to some exercise which helps in keeping my body fit. There is saying morning shows a day so if I become fresh in the morning then whole day goes well and full of excitement.

 As soon as I come home, breakfast is ready in my room so my role changes and turns out to be a son. Then I start talking with mom about what I will be doing whole day and also she suggest me to overcome few problem which I will face in day to day life.

  Again probably about 15 minutes later my sister comes in my room with some problems which she can’t solve then I teach her, there my role changes into a brother. For me my sister is one of the cuties girl in this world but sometimes we fight in small matter butits fun. It’s one of the most interesting role I play in my daily life.

 Then the time comes where I go to college, and there I play the role of a friend where we share our problems, talk about things, laugh and sometimes try some funny stuff which is also very interesting.  Then I have to attend lectures, tutorial classes where I play the role of a student.  I try to be an obedient student listening to every word told by my teachers and also making notes of them.  

In break I go canteen with my buddies so here again my role change to customer.

I do have fish farm so after my collage I go to fish farm. There we have planted many different type of vegetables as also different type of fishes. So people come to buy the things which are on the fish farm I play role of business men.

These are the roles that I play in my daily life changing from one to another as I meet different people.

reflection of yourself

1.     Self

5 words to describe self in relation to:

a.    Childhood-

           fun, fight, video games, creativity and innocence.

b.    Family-  

          love, caring, support, suggestions and future planning.

c.    Friends-

         jocks, long tours, help, entertainment and discussions.

For each, imagine a particular place ie classroom, room in your home, somewhere you go with your friends.

Childhood- school

Family- tv room

Friends- café and also my sweet home.

Arrange all the words in order of priority.

Childhood

1)    Fun:-

     Life becomes interesting when there is fun in the life. So, for doing any task or while studying we must have fun and learn. From this telling about me I am fun loving guy.

2)   Innocence :-

                    Childhood is all about learning from the mistake we made as all people think that we are innocence. But now we got mature thinking. 

3)   Video games

4)   Creativity

5)   Fight :-

        Fighting in small issue is the main problem every kids have so do I . But now when I remember that fight that brings smile in my face and make me fell regret what I did on my past. Now I feel fighting is not the solution for solving the problem.

Family

1)    Caring

2)   Love

3)   Support:-

4)   Suggestions

5)   Future planning

Friends

1)    Jocks

2)   Help

3)   Long tours

4)   Entertainment

5)   Discussions

 Cross out words that you think are least applicable to you now, and as you do so, consider how it feels to let that aspect of you go.

When you don’t want to discard any more words, read the words remaining and see how well they define you as you are now.

Are the words you wanted to keep aspects you think are positive or ones you don’t want to let go?

Knowing our own personality helps us in many ways dealing with other and also improving ourselves so  this is the reason I used 41q.com to do my personality test and i got the following results.

My personality type: "Energetic Doer"

Friendly, adaptable, action-oriented. "Doers" who are focused on immediate results. Living in the here-and-now, they're risk-takers who live fast-paced lifestyles. Impatient with long explanations. Extremely loyal to their peers, but not usually respectful of laws and rules if they get in the way of getting things done. Great people skills.

Careers that could fit me include:

Sales representatives, marketers, police, detectives, paramedics, medical technicians, computer technicians, computer technical support, entrepreneurs, comedians, agents, race car drivers, firefighters, military, loan sharks, con men, auditors, carpenters, craft workers, farmers, laborers, service workers, transportation operatives.

Characteristics

 

My Response to the outcome

I think the above statements describe me perfectly because i feel i posses all the qualities that are written above.To be honest i find my self quite a friendly and a down to earth person.I feel that i am extremely comfortable with new friends and i have great people skills. My friends also say that i am very loyal and very respectful to them. So i think the above statements about me fit me perfectly.

The only thing i disagree with is that i says i am a risk taker and like to live a fast paced life. In my case however i find it very untrue. I am that type of person who very much believe in facts and i like to take my decisions by looking at all the facts rather than taking great risks

Renowned persons with similar personality types:

Bruce Willis, actor

Donald Trump, businessman and TV personality

Eddie Murphy, actor and comedian

Ernest Hemingway, American novelist

Jack Nicholson, actor, film director, producer and writer

Jacob (Israel), Isaac's son, Abraham's grandson

James Buchanan, American president

Joan Cusack, actress and comedian

Madonna Louise Ciccone, singer

Michael J. Fox, actor

My views towards the personality-meter-bar section

Well the most of the bars are in a same postion . so i i guess my one quality has an affect on others.

The first bar shows i am more of a extroverted type of person than a introverted type. Since i am friendly and outgoing and i get energized by the people  around me. I think the word extrovert fit me perfectly.

The second bar shows that i am a sensing person.As i told earlier i like to make my decisions by looking at facts rather than patterns.So ithink i am more of a sensing person than a Intutive one.

The third bar shows that i am a thinker. I usually decide things using my own logic and i like derive my own colclusions. I also think that i usually make my decisons by thinking it through not by having a feeling of a hunch. So i guess i a thinking type of person.

The forth bar however is stuck in the middle. So i guess  i am both a judging and a perceiving type of person. I feel its true also because i am that type of person who sometimes likes his things organized and sometimes not. And also i make long term goals of somethings but i do not like to make a long term plan of everything. So i guesss i have both the qualities in me.

Reference

41-Question, 2012. : http://www.41q.com/

My result in 41 Question:

http://www.41q.com/type.41q?p=13586664